Sorry to hear that. If using your phone at home is that important to you and your husband's AT&T phone works then I think you have your answer. If you switch you may be able to trade in your current VZW phone with the new carrier and receive a gift card to apply towards the purchase of a new device. This should help alleviate your ETF.
I wouldn't necessarily suggest switching but sometimes VZW just isn't the right fit. It happens.