Hi Krystin...(my name too, but spelled differently)...No, I didn't outright ask him. Instead, I just texted him again how he was doing, and he responded right away, but it was sorta cold-soundin...
See more...
Hi Krystin...(my name too, but spelled differently)...No, I didn't outright ask him. Instead, I just texted him again how he was doing, and he responded right away, but it was sorta cold-sounding. I know texts can always sound cold, but it sounded like he wasn't interested in texting with me anymore. So, I am still up in the air about whether it was a text sent to me, or a glitch. You'd think I would assume he didn't send it, if he didn't sound interested in the latest one, but then...I didn't respond to the "up in the air" one for quite some time, with the very reason you and I have, which is "did he even text me...?" It was hesitation and fear, so I waited. That said, it may have turned him off that I didn't text him right away...so the end result tells me nothing either way. I say the best policy is honesty, and just outright ask him if he wants to continue chatting or not. I finally asked this guy in a text that if he wishes to continue with me, to please call me. I never heard anything back, so that solidified it for me. Better to know now, and get a mild bruise on your ego, than to have it drag out and be hurt more down the road, or more embarrassed by some other misconstrued situation. Like my mother said, if he gets that offended by a delayed text response by you, then you wouldn't want that kind of guy anyway! Too sensitive.