Apologize for the long delay, but I haven't had the opportunity to try your suggestions till now. Unfortuantely your steps don't work. I've the iMac 24 with Lion OS-X 10.7.3.

On the BB, I have the Media option, then separate buttons for Music, Ringtones, etc.  I choose Music, but there is no choice for menu nor any option to receiving with Bluetooth.

In Finder, right-select a music file, there is no submenu called More. 

So I don't know where you're getting this info.

Thanks anyway.  Vince.